Comment on Dealing with the Loss of a Parent by Barb.
Kris I am so sorry for the loss of your parents. I am so happy you were able to make emotional amends, especially with your mother. I miss him so much, and most days it feels like I will walk into their home and he will be sitting at the end of the couch where he always sat. I was a daddy’s girl and a mama’s girl too. I was the baby. But I too, try to dwell on the happy memories and feel so blessed he was my Daddy. Thank you for sharing your story with me. Sending you hugs and prayers of condolences. xxoo, Barb
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Oh sweetie – I know your pain. It is so strong and overwhelming right now and I know your heart ache likes you have never felt before. My daddy passed only three weeks ago and just recently I feel like I am pulling my heart back together. I have my mama to take care of so I needed to be strong for her. All I can say is I sought help for both she and my sister and I. Find a Grief Support Group tomorrow! I promise you that connecting with other people who feel the same pain as you is comforting in a strange way. I have never thought of myself as a support group type of person, but I am so happy I reached out and we attend. You are NOT alone in your grief. My email is barbgarrettnc@yahoo.com and you can reach out to me anytime. I promise you day y day, it gets better. I know I will never, ever be over my Daddy. Even now for no reason at all, I will bust out crying. Talk to him, write to him. I talk to daddy all the time out loud. I have to believe in my heart they can hear us. It makes me feel better. Whatever you do, please do not hold your grief in, okay? Your daddy would want YOU to live and be happy. You can do this. Please email me any time. xxoo, Barb
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Oh Amy I am so sorry for your loss. Yes, Dad had a massive stroke, too. He had been going downhill for a few months because he had pneumonia twice last year, but still we were not prepared in any way to say goodbye, and the fact he was fine when we put him to bed that night. I miss him so much sometimes I feel like my chest will burst open, so I can’t even imagine what my poor Mama is going through. Yes, we try to keep her busy too but there are days she just isn’t up to anything. Hoping you and your family can remember all the good times with happiness and love in her your hearts. Praying for your family. xxoo, Barb
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Kathleen, I am glad my words made me sound that way. Some days I don’t even feel I can function, plus my mama’s health has been bad since dady died. I guess I feel like I have to be especially strong for her. Thank you for your kind words and for stopping by. ~barb
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